My Best Simple Moving Tips and Advice After 30+ Moves: How to get started when the thought of moving has you feeling overwhelmed.
Yes, I have moved more than 30 times and I have learned that the hardest part is getting started. This post offers my best step-by-step moving tips and advice to get you moving in the right direction (see what I did there?) when moving can feel so overwhelming.
There are so many tips I could share about keeping boxes light enough to carry, but full enough to not waste space and the most affordable way to move cross-country. I could tell you about all the people and offices to contact to change your address and all the ways to save money on moving and starting your new home.
But I won’t do that here. This post is about how to get started when the thought of moving has you feeling overwhelmed.
My best advice is to just get started. But where? how? what?
The secret is in the prep work.
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Your first step is to start a moving notebook. To help you keep all the moving parts contained in one place – your moving notebook. My favorite notebook for this purpose is this one by Mead. You can buy it using this link on Amazon here.
I love this specific one because it is small, has a pocket for holding stuff, the spiral is covered, so it won’t snag, it has a section divided to keep lists and info organized. It also has a pen holder, so you aren’t constantly on the hunt.
Whatever notebook or electronic method you chose, find a way to capture all of the information that will be flying your way. Buckle up!
What goes in the notebook? Here are some ideas…
Your new address
Information about your moving company, the confirmation number, for example
Details for the kids
Record people to whom you are giving or selling items
List of what was packed in which box
Things that pop in your head but you know you will forget
List of thank you notes to send
Utility and other contacts to notify about your move
Now that you have something (shhh, maybe a few things) on the way from Amazon, move on to your exit strategy.
Challenge: How much can you get out the door before the truck arrives? Yay!
The next step is to locate all of your important documents and get them organized. These will stay right with you during the whole process, so keeping them in something secure is a great idea.
If you don’t have many documents to carry, your moving notebook might be sufficient. When I was in college and moving, all of my most important documents fit in my wallet and purse, for example.
Which documents are important? Here are some ideas:
Legal name-change documents
Titles and deeds
Contracts (movers, business, lease, etc)
External hard drive or digital files
Regardless of which documents you carry and how you will steward them, get your documents together, and make a plan for keeping them where you know where they are.
Challenge: How are you going to manage your important papers?
You will be making many decisions about what will go with you to your new life. Chose a location to temporarily store things that are not going to be packed. The things that will go here will be given away, returned to the owner, sold, donated, trashed, for example.
Sort by Keep, Donate, Toss. A great tool to help keep things organized is a laundry sorter like this one. Label the sections and then empty the regularly.
Determine how you will get rid of things you will donate, trash, recycle, sell, give away, and so on. Find out all the details.
What are the hours, location, and procedures for your donation site? (great things to add to your moving notebook!)
Some charities will come to your home and pick up items. Scheduling a pickup appointment can be a great motivator to get items ready because of the deadline.
What is the best way to sell used items locally?
Is there anything you need to know about bulk trash in your area?
Do you have anything that you borrowed that needs to be returned?
Do you know someone who would love to have some of the good stuff you have but can’t take with you?
Decide which pieces of furniture and large items will not be used in your new home. What is going with you? Is there anything you are going to sell or donate? Start getting that ready to go now.
Don’t forget to capture all of this great information in your moving notebook.
Challenge: What is your plan for all the stuff exiting your?
Place to Stack
Clear a space to stack packed boxes. In one home, we had an attached garage, in another, we had a guest room. One home had a small corner in an oddly large bathroom. We cleared these spaces and used them to stack packed boxes as high as was safe. It is great if your stack can be out of the way and not have to be moved again until the truck is loaded.
Note: even if staging a home to sell, a stack of boxes is acceptable. When we sold one home, we stacked it in a guest room and closed the door during showings. The rest of the house was staged and in immaculate condition. We sold the home in three days even with a stack of boxes piled in the guest room!
Where will your stack be? Is it ready?
Take out the Trash
Do not put unnecessary time and energy into moving trash. Let it go.
Get a trash bin or bag ready. Fill it with as much trash as you can find around the house. Recycle anything that you can. Repeat as many times as needed.
For ideas, start with expired food, broken items, things that need to go to recycling, damaged shoes, clothing, cracked storage bins, useless power cords, ripped boxes, stacks of unneeded papers (shred them), old personal care products, and unloved cosmetics, expired medication, old magazines, damaged books, worn out home goods, and so on.
Do the same thing, looking for things that are not trash, but aren’t going with you. Maybe they will be donated or given away. Mark them with a Post-It note and lighten your load. Record some of these decisions in your moving notebook.
Challenge: Quick! What can you get out of the house right now?
The Way You Move
What will be the best way to move for you? You can hire moving companies to pack for you, move, and unload. You can also pack yourself, load a storage container, have that transported, and unload it on the other side. For local moves, we have used a rental truck and did it all.
Choose your best move.
Get several quotes for moving companies based on how you want to do it. Make the reservations and record them in your moving notebook.
Stage an area to keep packing supplies and to do your packing. We have a small folding table that was great for setting items to be packed and the box at a comfortable level. A small caddy can hold a tape gun, labels, and some sharpies goes here. Under the table, keep a stack of flat boxes and another box can hold packing material.
Below, are the table and caddy I like. You can purchase them in a local store or on Amazon here:
Challenge: What will your packing station look like? Where will it be?
You will need more boxes and packing material than you think. So get plenty. You can buy moving boxes, but if you ask around, you can usually get all or most of them for free.
I love free! Liquor stores, grocery, books stores, copy paper boxes from offices, and friends have been my best places to get boxes. Plus everyone gets boxes regularly from online orders, so ask around.
In 30+ moves, I have never purchased a box or packing material.
But you will need sharpies, and LOTS of packing tape. Here are the links to what I love on Amazon.
Before you pack, take photos. It is a simple step that can add so much value.
If the electronics have a complicated setup – take a pic. Do you have your photo gallery on the wall just how you like it and want to duplicate it at your new home? Take a picture.
Record valuables and take inventory of the number of items and boxes you have by taking photos. If God forbid, something should happen to your stuff, great records can help with insurance and replacement. You can always delete it later.
Moving Tips and Advice: Tackle the Packing
You have laid an excellent foundation for MOVING forward by gathering essential papers, getting rid of the trash, figuring out how you will move, clearing your spaces, lining up your system for things that are not going with you, gathering your supplies, and taking pics.
Now that you have those steps completed, it is time to get started with packing. Start with your easiest wins and take it item by item, hour by hour, day by day.
You can do this!
Start by packing items that you have in storage. If there is anything that you are not keeping, get rid of it now. Get them in your systems of donation, recycling, and trash.
Things like your seasonal decor and equipment, off-season clothing and gear, and keepsake items, for example, are great things to get sealed up and stacked to moved.
Anything that is not useful for your daily life, but you love it because it is beautiful for meaningful, pack it. Even if you are staging your home for sale, very few home accessories should be left unpacked. Personal photos and memorabilia are recommended to be out of sight during a showing, so those are a no-brainer.
Take some time to consider if this specific item will work in your new home. Often, I have found that wall art, certain accessories, and lamps for example did not work in our new spaces, so I ended up using all that effort to pack and move things that ended up being not useful later. I try my best not to do that anymore. Learn from me, the girl who has moved over 30 times.
Be selective about what you keep and only pack what you love and need.
The kitchen and pantry can be the most time-consuming areas to pack. I recommend starting here right after your easiest wins — storage and decor.
First, look everywhere in the kitchen and pantry for easy wins. Things that you don’t want anymore, get them in your exit plan system. Toss expired food and give away new items that you know you won’t use between now and your move.
Remove anything that does not belong in the kitchen, for example, tools and office supplies, and take them to the correct rooms.
Next, Determine what you must use up, such as food, freezer items, supplies, spices, condiments, cereal, pantry goods. Make your menu plan surrounding this.
This use-up-stuff menu might be a little unusual because you are using up odds and ends and that is great! You will save money by having a plan and not ending up in the drive-through or tossing out food. One move, we had 4 partially used cereal boxes left in the pantry on moving day! Lesson learned.
Clear one area to keep the pure essentials. Here are some ideas: disposable cups, plates, flatware, and napkins, a knife, fry pan, large saucepan, spatula, manual can opener, dish towels, dish soap, essential cleaning supplies.
Now pack your kitchen.
Pack only items that you are taking, that are loved, useful, and are not needed right now.
Consider using dish towels to pad fragile items to save packing material and room to pack towels.
Start by preparing an essential care kit. Use a bag or basket to hold the essentials that you will use and keep with you during the relocation process. Each day, as you use something for personal care, add it to your basket and store it there (rather than the drawer, for example).
Remember to set aside a First-Aid kit, basic toiletries, medications, hair supplies, and a few towels. Then pack the other items that you love and are useful.
Get rid of the rest using the system you set up above.
Note: Keep the towels for packing fragile items like decor items, platters, and lamps.
What will go in your essential care kit?
5. Books and Media
If you are moving, you probably won’t have a lot of time to read. Pack your books and media for another easy win. This is a great time to do an honest evaluation of what you will keep or what you will send off into a new life.
Note: The best boxes for books are liquor boxes because they are small and sturdy.
Which books and media will your take into your new home?
Pack a suitcase or two with the clothes that you need for the transition. Not only does this get your suitcases working for you, but you have your essentials ready and portable.
Next, pack up the clothing that is off-season, but you love and wear.
Now is a great time to go through your clothing as you pack. Decide which items will go with you into your new home – your new life.
I wrote a post, Decluttering: Stuff to Get Rid of Right Now – Part One: Shoes & Clothing, with powerful prompts to help you think through what to keep and what to get rid of now. Click here for the post.
During one large move, I chose to begin to start fresh with my style and curate a capsule wardrobe. I wrote about what I have learned about curating a wardrobe you will love called, Surprising Ways People Fail with a CAPSULE WARDROBE and the Must-Know Secrets. Get the secrets!
My best simple moving tips and advice after 30 moves
There you have it. My best moving tips and advice are to just get started. The secret is in the prep work.
If you have technical questions about packing, boxes, helping kids cope with a move, I would love to hear from you! Make a comment here, or send me a message. I love to help.
But from the girl who has moved more than 30 times, I know the hardest part is getting started. So my best advice to follow the steps to lay the prep work and get moving!
About the Author, Jaime
Here at Altogether Mostly, you will find grace, compassion, joy, and beauty. I use empathy and a little tough love to bring out the best in people. I live in the Midwest United States with my loving husband and awesome children. For more about me and Altogether Mostly, please visit my about page here.